Due to recent events, I have realized that it is extremely important to let your loved ones know of your wishes. Steve and I have had many talks over the last 2 years about our dieing wishes. We both don’t want to suffer too long. We agree that pulling the plug is often the best decision. Sometimes living life to the fullest is better than prolonging your life just to continue fighting a medical issue.
However, a new thing has come to light. I have seen that some people think it is better to protect the patient from harsh news at least for a little while. My family was always open and honest about issues and that is what I expect. I am letting it be known right here and now that I want to be involved in my medical problems. I want the whole truth (not sugarcoated) the second the information is shared.
In fact, I don’t like people knowing things about me that I don’t know. That is the number one reason I would never choose to be surprised by the sex of my baby. Knowing that the ultrasound tech (someone I don’t even know) would have that kind of information would annoy on me.
Back on topic, I do not need to be protected. If I only have a few months to live, let me know NOW so I can make sure it is going the way I want it to. Don’t worry about my reaction. I will be fine as long as the truth is shared. Sure, ignorance can be bliss, but if others know, I better be told too.
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